Story of Prophet Ibrahim Alaihis Salam (Part 2)

As we know from our understanding of the earlier part of his story, Ibrahim's father was a renowned individual who was closely involved in creating idols and held a prominent government position due to his exceptional skills. His conversation with his father starts in the Quran as an indirect, simple question: “My beloved father! Why do you worship those (idols) which do not hear and do not see and will not benefit you at all?” Then Ibrahim عليه السلام tries to convince him softly:” O My dear father, indeed there has come to me (some of) knowledge that has not come to you, so follow me; I will guide you to a straight path.”

He was truly concerned about his father’s betterment in this life and the life of the hereafter.

We have seen the love of Ibrahim AS for his father, in his words and actions. This is the correct way to love our parents. Either way alone is not enough. Love for parents and our elders needs practical and verbal expressions at all times.

Ibrahim عليه السلام tried his best to convince him by repeating again and again the invitation to the true God’s path, in different, smarter ways. He continued his efforts to save his father from ALLAH’s anger and punishment.

His father heard this clear statement against the false gods, and for the first time, he realised that ‘the boy is not focused on the false gods.’ He wondered if he was serious about abandoning all the gods of his forefathers. Once the father concluded that Ibrahim عليه السلام was truly opposed to his nation’s worship practices, his father told him to leave the house and stay away from him for a long, long period.

Leaving home in that period was not only leaving just a place of living but also leaving all companions, tribe, power and all the past time, we can say, as communications were limited. The near people’s power and support were a bigger factor in life at that time. But ALLAH was sufficient for Prophet Ibrahim عليه السلام. The wonderful thing was, the young Ibrahim never lost his cool in the whole conversation; he remained calm and respectful. His tone continued to be loving till the last moment when he left his home.

Dealing with an elder who is not doing the right thing is a critical skill to learn. Our father, Prophet Ibrahim alaihis salat o wassalam, has presented us with brilliant examples to follow, with his actions. This is not always required to agree on wrong perspectives, but it is always important to disagree with grace and respect.

We are the followers of Ibrahim عليه السلام, we are here to learn from him and continue his legacy. Let’s not forget this, when we may one day be in a difficult situation with one of our elder beloved relationships.

Ibrahim عليه السلام teaches us to be simple, humble, and loving. At the same time, say politely, only what is right!